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Safely Self Defense



Regular price $59.99 USD
Regular price $79.99 USD Sale price $59.99 USD
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Due to state laws, we cannot ship:

  • The Sidekick to: AK, HI, MA & NY.
  • The Knux Grip to: CA, WA, MI, IL & VT.

The Sidekick + Strap Grip CAN be shipped to CA, WA, MI, IL & VT.

The first batch of Sidekicks is expected to ship Summer 2024.

Pre-orders are fully refundable until fulfilled. Learn more about our refund policy here.  

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What's a Sidekick?

The Safely Sidekick is a customizable self-defense device with up to 5 tools in 1 handheld device.

Yes, it's patent pending.

  • Spencer Coursen

    A best-selling author, nationally recognized threat management expert, and security consultant.

  • Robyn Warner

    A sexual assault survivor turned safety expert and self-defense instructor, empowering thousands of women.

The 5 Tools

Pepper Spray

  • Maximum Strength Formula: Lab tested (HPLC), UV marking dye, 1.4% MC, 10% OC.
  • Powerful Stream Spray: Up to 25 bursts with a maximum spray distance of 10 ft.
  • Long-Lasting: Shelf life of 4 years.
  • Highly Functional: Compatible with safely pepper spray & practice spray inserts, so you can replace and practice as needed.
  • Locks in Place: Locks the device into place and is safety lock secured.


  • Very Bright: Up to 150 lumens.
  • Two Modes: Consistent bright light for vision or a flashing light to draw attention.
  • User Friendly & Efficient: One-button operation and long-lasting battery life.
  • Battery Life: Multiple hour battery life.


  • Extremely Loud: Up to 130dB.
  • Multi-Functional: When activated, the alarm will sound and the flashlight will strobe.
  • Safe Mode Option: If you lose your pull pin or are unable to replace it, you can hold down the flashlight button for 5 seconds to turn off the alarm and continue to use the flashlight.


  • Intimidating: Knux grip provides an intimidation factor.
  • Secure: Strap grip secures the device to your hand. You can tighten the strap grip by pulling down on the strap and velcroing the device.
  • Interchangeable: Each grip fits onto your Sidekick and can be replaced.


  • Keychain: The keychain can be used to efficiently carry extra items in one hand. All sidekick orders come with a keychain.
  • Glass Breaker: The glass breaker is designed for emergency situations where breaking glass is necessary. Currently, it is still under testing for its effectiveness on car windows.
  • Interchangeable: Both the keychain and glass breaker can be attached to your Sidekick as needed.

Meet the Sidekick

  • First come, first serve.

    Once fulfilled, your order takes priority when you pre-order today.

  • Our lowest price ever.

    Save $20+ with our limited time offer for the best deal on your Sidekick.

  • Be part of the journey.

    You'll receive product updates until your Sidekick arrives.

What's the timeline?

The Sidekick has entered production.

The first Sidekicks are expected to ship Summer 2024. Pre-order today to be among the very first to get one!


When can I expect my Sidekick to ship?

Once the Sidekicks are completed, all orders will be fulfilled on a first come first serve basis. The first batch of Sidekicks are expected to ship in Summer 2024. Our team will send you updates as the shipment date approaches.

How do I use my Sidekick?

To learn how to use your Sidekick visit our how to use your sidekick page.

What's Included in every Sidekick?

Prior to customization, every Sidekick includes pepper spray, a flashlight, an alarm, one grip, and a keychain attachment. Add-ons to your Sidekick are optional.

How long does the battery last?

The Safely Sidekick features an extended battery life lasting multiple hours of continuous flashlight use, and it's rechargeable for added convenience.

How do I charge my device?

The Sidekick is rechargeable. You can charge your Sidekick by using a Micro USB.

More Details


  • Aluminum, plastic & metal


Strap Grip with Glass Breaker:

  • 6.1 in (height) x 2.5 in (width) x 1.3 in (thickness)
  • 4 ounces

Knux Grip with Glass Breaker:

  • 6.1 in (height) x 2.8 in (width) x 1.3 in (thickness)
  • 4 ounces

Height measurements taken from top of the pepper spray to bottom of the attachments.

Shipping Restrictions

Due to state laws, we cannot ship:

  • The Sidekick to: AK, HI, MA & NY.
  • The Knux Grip to: CA, WA, MI, IL & VT.

The Sidekick + Strap Grip CAN be shipped to CA, WA, MI, IL & VT.

If you are impacted by the shipping restrictions, you can still order other items like our practice spray or motel keychain

Terms & Policies

Terms & Conditions of Sale

TERMS & CONDITIONS OF SALE: Before each use, user shall determine the suitability of the product for his / her intended use, and assumes all risk and liability in connection therewith. Safely has no control over the storage, handling, use or application of its products and must disclaim responsibility for any unsatisfactory results obtained therefrom. User must be at least 18 years of age to purchase this product. Please check all local laws and regulations regulating pepper spray before usage. User is responsible for compliance with all applicable laws, rules, regulations, and ordinances in its purchase and use of the product. All recommendations and sales are made on the condition that safely and its distributors and dealers Will not be held liable for any damages resulting from the product’s use.

Pre-Order Policy

Thank you for considering a pre-order of our upcoming product. Please note that the following terms apply to all pre-orders:

  1. Product Development: The product is currently under development and the final specifications may differ from the preliminary information provided. We commit to keeping you informed of significant changes.
  2. Delivery Schedule: Estimated delivery dates are subject to change due to factors such as production delays or other unforeseen circumstances. We will communicate any changes as they occur.
  3. Cancellation and Refunds: You can cancel your pre-order at any time before the product ships, and we will refund the amount paid. Once the product has shipped, our standard return policy applies.
  4. Payment: Your payment will be processed immediately to secure your pre-order. This helps fund the development and production of the product.
  5. Limitation of Liability: We are not liable for any incidental damages that may arise from the purchase or use of our product.
  6. Customer Service: If you have any questions or concerns about your pre-order, please contact our customer support team at

We appreciate your support and understanding that pre-orders help make the production of innovative products possible. By placing a pre-order, you are making a valuable contribution to the realization of this product.

Shipping Policy

Shipping Policy: Incorrect or Invalid Shipping Address

At Safely, we strive to ensure smooth and timely delivery of your orders. To facilitate this process, it is crucial to provide accurate and valid shipping address information during the checkout process. However, we understand that mistakes can happen, and we are here to assist you in resolving any issues that may arise due to incorrect or invalid shipping addresses.

Order Verification:

It is the responsibility of the customer to provide an accurate and valid shipping address at the time of purchase. To minimize errors, we encourage you to review and double-check your shipping address details before finalizing your order.

Address Confirmation Email:

After placing an order, you will receive an order confirmation email containing the shipping address you provided. Please carefully review this information and contact our customer support immediately if any corrections are needed.

Address Correction Requests:

If you notice an error or need to make changes to your shipping address after placing the order, please reach out to our customer support team as soon as possible. We will do our best to assist you in updating the address before the order is shipped. However, please note that we cannot guarantee that changes can be made if the order has already been processed for shipping.

Undeliverable or Returned Packages:

If a package is deemed undeliverable due to an incorrect or invalid address, it may be returned to us by the shipping carrier. In such cases, we will contact you to verify the shipping details and provide options for reshipment. Additional shipping charges may apply for resending the package.

Re-shipment Fees:

In cases where a package is returned to us due to an incorrect or invalid shipping address, any re-shipment fees incurred will be the responsibility of the customer. These fees may include shipping costs, return shipping costs, and any additional charges imposed by the shipping carrier.

Refunds and Cancellations:

If a package is returned to us and the customer does not wish to proceed with reshipment, a refund may be issued for the order subtotal minus any applicable shipping and handling fees. Please note that any promotional discounts or coupons used during the original purchase may not be applicable for the refund.

We highly recommend providing accurate shipping address details to avoid any delays or complications. However, should any issues arise, our dedicated customer support team is here to assist you throughout the process. Please feel free to reach out to us at for any questions or concerns regarding shipping addresses.

Return Policy

We have a 30-day return policy, which means you have 30 days after receiving your item to request a return.

To be eligible for a return, your item must be in the same condition that you received it, unworn or unused, with tags, and in its original packaging. You’ll also need the receipt or proof of purchase.

To start a return, you can contact us at If your return is accepted, we’ll send you a return shipping label, as well as instructions on how and where to send your package. Items sent back to us without first requesting a return will not be accepted.

You can always contact us for any return question at

Read more about returns here.